If My Toddler Jumps on My Pregnant Belly, Will It Hurt My Baby?

Being pregnant with number two {or three. . .} can be an entirely new ballgame. Each pregnancy is different, so you may be experiencing random new symptoms that vary from last time. Likely, you are also feeling much more tired than with your first baby, because now you are chasing around a toddler instead of getting some occasional rest. You are also learning to play defense with your pregnant belly, attempting to keep baby #1 from clobbering it on a regular basis. Despite your best efforts you will occasionally get bumped, pulled on, and likely even body slammed hard enough to take your breath away. This can be scary and painful to the mom, but is extremely unlikely to hurt the baby.

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Your baby is protected by many layers:





Fascia (strong connective tissue that holds muscles together)


Uterus (super thick and strong muscles)

Any blunt force has to pass through all these insulating layers to reach the baby. But even then, the baby is further insulated by the amniotic fluid.

In the first trimester the uterus has not even reached the pubic bone, so the pelvic bones protect the baby.

Many moms often wonder if tight clothes, seat belts, a toddler sitting on her lap, intercourse or pushing on their abdomen might harm the baby. Please rest assured these activities are not going to cause any issues.

To injure a baby in the womb, it takes a significant amount of force. Most cases of fetal injury are due to domestic violence (gunshot wounds/stabbing) or car accidents.

What can be concerning is shearing forces, especially in the third trimester. The placenta is made to detach from the uterus after delivery, but strong shearing forces can make it pull away prematurely. Falls onto the abdomen or buttocks, car accidents or severe trauma can cause the placenta to be dislodged from the uterus in a condition called an abruption. An abruption can happen immediately after trauma or may not show up for 24 hours after an accident. Symptoms of an abruption include:  contractions, bleeding, and abdominal pain. Anytime you fall during pregnancy, if it’s hard enough to knock the wind out of you, you should call your provider. Even if you don’t fall directly on your abdomen it is important to be monitored for signs of an abruption.

Testing for an abruption includes an ultrasound, labs to check for bleeding, and monitoring contractions and baby’s heart beat. Often we will monitor women for up to 8 hours after an accident to make sure that there is no evidence of an abruption.

The unavoidable day to day bumping and pushing on your pregnant belly is fine. The occasional toddler hop, though painful and stressful for mom is unlikely to injure your baby.  The baby will just be sloshed around in his amniotic fluid swimming pool. If you fall or are involved in any type of auto accident, this could be a major issue. Please call your provider to determine if you need further evaluation.

Have you had issues with your toddler unexpectedly pouncing on your belly?

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    Carolyn Lowenv says

    I fell right on my tummy crossing the street, second trimester, second baby. I sort of just bounced back up and all was fine.

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    Wi Kennedy says

    Im 18 weeks pregnant. I was woken out of my sleep from my toddler forcefully and repeatedly dragging his elbow across my tummy. Now im having what feels like gas pains. Im just hoping everything is ok with my unborn! Extremely worried…..

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    Ashley says

    I took my 20 month old to the dentist yesterday, he was sitting on my lap and threw a tantrum. I was worried that something might have happened to the baby, but my ob’s office wouldn’t see me they told me if I was concerned to go to the hospital. I currently have no insurance, and had no belly pain just minor back pain so I didn’t go. my next appointment in in the middle of September so hoping everything is fine. I was feeling movements occasionally in the beginning of the week, but im only 14 weeks 6 days so I know its too early to expect to feel them. After reading this it sounds like things are probably fine and that it is typical to have this happen with a toddler at home.

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    im 11 weeks and fell in work yesterday hitting my tummy on the workbench it went red but no bruising and only feels a little sore when i touch were hurt, do you think i should contact doctor? havent had any bleeding or cramping. thanks.

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      Jessica says


      I am sorry we didn’t get back with you sooner. How is everything? It’s always ok to contact your doctor if you are concerned. Praying for you today!

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        hey, thanks for gettin back to me :) i seem to be all good now no pain or anything! im now 13 weeks..so just looking forward to my 20week scan now lol :) thanks again jessica xxsc

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    Michelle C says

    My Son just jump on me elbowing me in the stomach in the process
    im 8 weeks pregnant with my second child and its so hard
    to keep my 1 st child off my tummy. Reading this article
    made me feel better about the safety of my unborn. But
    needless to say it still hurts and is scary.

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    mayangel says

    hi am 5months pregnant and today while working one of my employeesbump into my stomach it was kind of hard but it ddnt knock me down or anything it just felt like someone bump into my stomach.now am worried that that bump harm my angel.can someone help plz

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    Allison says

    Okay I kind of scared my husband you know messing around tickling him and he accidently elbowed my belly I’m 26 weeks pregnant would that harmed my baby?

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    Chaunese Hollins says

    Hi, I’m Chaun, and in 33 weeks pregnant with my third baby. I had a little tummy ache and went to the bathroom because it felt like diarrhea, but while sitting down on the toilet, i felt nauseous and threw up into the bag in the trash. I felt a lot of pressure and tightness in my tummy when i bent over while sitting. I felt like i squeezed my baby. Well she be ok, or should i go and get checked?

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    famay says

    I am 16 weeks and I always worried about my baby if someone steps on your back will my baby be hurt?? I am very worried

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    mrswal1903 says

    My 3 year old has just jumped on belly. I’m 13 weeks and not in a great deal of pain. Scared the life out of me, I’ve previously miscarried so extra nervous. Hoping all is ok.

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    A. Steward says

    This article made me feel a little better. I am currently 13 weeks pregnant and my 7 month old was sick and slept with me last night. He was very restless and kept waking me up kicking/pushing me with his feet in my side (never directly in the front). Some seemed pretty forceful. Should I be worried about my pregnancy? I have called my OB but haven’t heard back from him.

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    *Darlene** says

    I’m 23 weeks pregnant and my 18 month old just jumped on my belly while I was laying on the couch…Scared me!! Feel a little better now that I read this article

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    Kandas says

    Me and my partner were messing around and I fell and his elbow hit my tummy I’m 17 weeks and I’m so worried that something gonna happen

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    Ashleon says

    I’m 7 weeks along and have a VERY rowdy 16 month old who loves to climb all over me often kneeing me or plopping all his weight on my tummy. I’ve been so worried he’s gunna hurt our little sacred vessel, but feel MUCH reading this article!

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    Divine says

    I was sitting maybe 6inches off the floor doing some chores and I think i squeezed my legs too tight that i felt like my pelvic bones squeezed my baby and then immediately felt the baby wobble around like crazy for a short while. im worried i might have deformed my baby because of it…is that possible? 33weeks pregnant so i think theres not much space for baby to move to. next check up is in 4days im worried they will think its silly and not take it seriously :(

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    Kayelin says

    Hello! I’m 18 weeks pregnant with baby #2. I’m worried because tonight my husband and I had intercourse and he was on top. He kept laying on my stomach. He wasn’t putting ALL his weight but there was pressure on my abdomen and I kept having to tell him to hold himself up more. We just like I be close while making love and it’s getting hard to do. Should I even be worried?? I also have to watch out for my 2.5 year old who loves to jump all over me but she pretty much understands when I tell her to be careful of the baby and then she will kiss my belly.

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    Gina Fagan says

    I am 16 weeks pregnant and i was extra bloated one day from extra eating and I leaned forward to get something and I felt like I squeezed something bc of all the gas pressure. I’m sure that all is well but I have miscarried 3 times and don’t want to lose this guy. We all wotry so much bc we don’t know what is going on inside of our bodies. I hope prayers and love for our babies is what we need. I’m always asking God to keep me strong instead of a crazy pregnant lady!

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